I lost myself in love - and that's why I help women find themselves again.

For years, I thought if I just loved harder, kept the peace, or gave one more chance, everything would finally fall into place.
Instead, I lost myself.

I stopped hearing my own voice. I walked on eggshells. I shrank myself down to keep a relationship alive — and almost forgot who I really was.

That’s why I do this work. Because I know how it feels to disappear in love… and I know the freedom of finally coming back.

Leaving that toxic relationship wasn’t just about walking away from someone else. It was about walking back to me.

And here’s what I learned: when you reconnect with yourself - your needs, your body, your truth - your entire relationship shifts. 

Emotional and physical intimacy deepens. 
Boundaries hold.
You stop waiting for someone else to change, because you’ve finally changed the one person you can: yourself.

That realisation became the foundation of everything I teach today: helping women stop abandoning themselves in love, and start building the confidence, clarity, and connection they deserve.

AMAZON BESTSELLER in Germany & Australia - Beyond Dependence were I share my story, going from a confident woman in love and life - to letting in the doubts and fears in my romantic relationship until I've given up on happily ever after and replaced it with "this is it" - and emerging through remembering that I matter more then the voices around me. 

Who I Am Now

These days, people call me an intimacy expert, a transformational relationship coach, a leadership mentor, even a bestselling author. Titles are nice, but what really matters is this: I help people stop losing themselves in love and start rebuilding the most important relationship of all - the one they have with themselves.

I created the BACK TO ME group coaching program as a powerful, practical, and deeply personal journey for anyone who feels stuck, unheard, or disconnected in their relationship. Through this online program and my private coaching, I guide clients from self-doubt to self-trust, from resentment to reconnection, and from people-pleasing to unapologetic self-leadership.

I’ve been doing this work for over a decade, drawing on my background in human behaviour, NLP, mindset work, and emotional healing. I coach in both English and German, supporting clients worldwide to untangle old patterns, heal emotional wounds, and finally come home to themselves - with clarity, compassion, and just enough tough love to make it last.

I live in China, where I work with international clinics and expat communities. I also mentor in women leadership development and volunteer in one of Uganda’s largest refugee camps, offering relationship coaching and advice - because matters of the heart don't know any boundaries.

All of these experiences keep me grounded. They remind me, and I remind my clients, that emotional connection and self-worth aren’t luxuries. They’re essentials.

If you’re tired of doing everything for everyone and still feeling empty, my work is your invitation to make yourself a priority, not a project.

Because when you reconnect with you, everything changes.

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